Yesterday seemed like it went on forever. I'm sure you've had those days when 8 hours feels like 16. Do you have people/friends in your life that blame everyone else for everything? I live it everyday and it gets frustrating.
Q - You don't like your job?
A - Find a new one.
Q - You hate people walking all over you?
A - Don't let them and learn to say no.
Q - Your boyfriend is worthless?
A - Get rid of him. (Some people cannot stand to be alone and would rather be unhappy than alone.)
Q - You HATE your relative/friend?
A - Don't talk to them or contact them anymore. (The joy of being an adult is we don't have to be around people we don't want to. Mom/Dad doesn't MAKE us spend time with our family anymore.)
Q - Hate being a victim?
A - Then choose not to be one and live your life differently.
Q - Do you hate being in debt?
A - Then quit eating out everyday and wasting your money on things you don't need or won't even remember in a month. (We don't have many "needs" in our lives; people waste so much money on "wants")
Q - Do you hate being a doormat?
A - Again, learn to say no and have more respect for yourself.
Q - Are you overweight/out of shape?
A - Get off your duff and do something about it. The diet/weight loss fairy isn't going to knock on your door, wave her wand to make glitter appear and your weight will be gone when the glitter settles.
Q - Did something go wrong and you can't control it?
A - Take a deep breath and try to realize you will get through it.
Q - Do parts of your job/home life drive you crazy?
A - Realize that people generally don't do things to piss you off or try to get under your skin. Pick your battles and listen with an open heart. (I'm sure someone didn't intentionally leave something for you to clean up or fix just to make you mad; maybe you just need a calm, rational conversation to understand where they are coming from - you might find out they didn't realize they have a certain habit. It's not worth jumping down someone's throat when they may have the same issues with you that you didn't realize either.)
Can you tell I've had a lot on my mind?? LOL I totally realize some people are just lazy and/or prefer drama in their lives. To those people I say, "Deal with it." You CHOOSE to keep that drama in your life so learn to live with it.
I'm completely guilty of some of these questions and answers, but I think I have a pretty good grip on my life. I've learned a lot during my lifetime and I get really frustrated with people who continually slam their head into walls and wonder why they have headaches. The issue I'm dealing with the most for myself right now is getting off my duff to get back in shape. I complain about it and then I don't get up when my alarm goes off to work out and I have a horrible weakness for sweets. BUT I know I'm the only one who can change it. That stinkin' fairy hasn't come knocking on my door. :)
Another example I can think of is when we make dinner and do the dishes. When I cook dinner, I clean up as I go so there's less to deal with when we're done eating dinner. When Doug cooks, he cleans up everything when he's done. To me, that seems like a waste of time and I see it as a big mess to deal with after dinner. On the other hand, Doug probably views my way as extra work because not only am I cooking, but I'm also cleaning instead of spending time with him - when I could just do all the cleaning at one time instead of over and over. And I continually give him a hard time for leaving one dish or pot in the sink or on the stove when he's done cleaning. Does he do that to annoy me? Of course NOT! I LET it annoy me, I choose to let that stupid dish get under my skin. With a huff and an eye roll I clean the final dish or pot. Is it worth the eye roll or huff to begin with? Nope. It's just a dish. Doug has a lot on his mind, just like I do. Does he huff and roll his eyes at me when I'm lazy and don't change the toilet paper roll? Nope. I'm learning to be more like that :)
Insanity: Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. - Albert Einstein.
This entire rant was supposed to just be a simple intro to the post title, but it sure turned into a venting session. Onto what I was originally going to post about....
I gave my 27th blood donation yesterday - that's a total of 3.375 gallons. Most people can't stand needles or hate watching blood draws....not me, I took pictures:
I got home late for our dinner date with Ben and Breanna. I told Breanna, "It's nice of me to show up huh? LOL" Ben and Doug watched college football and we went upstairs to play Mario on the Wii. We were yelling and laughing a lot and then we thought we better go check on our hubbies. Yep, just as we thought - they fell asleep. They work so hard for us.
I got a present yesterday! I love presents!! In all reality, I love anything wrapped - I always say it could be a stick of gum or a pencil, it's just so exciting to unwrap stuff! Even if I wrap it to give to someone else I can't stand it and have to make them open it! My sister-in-law, Denise, made me the cutest apron!!!
She is so talented! I'm so excited to use it! But I don't want to use it and ruin it at the same time. Oh what a dilemma. She must know the pajama shirt I'm wearing has an oil stain on it. LOL Thank you so much Denise. I love it!!!
Man, do I sound bipolar or what???!!! "Holy crap it was a long day, rant, rant, rant....OOOO a super cute apron!!!" HAHAH Like a dog that just saw a squirrel or a bright shiny thing.